February (right at 3 years old):
Height: 38 inches
Weight: 34 lbs
This kiddo will probably be our tallest boy. He's growing like a weed, already gaining 2 inches since February. He's taller than both Lance and Jude at the same age and solid as a rock. Seriously. We've been trying to teach him to swim this summer and he doesn't float. I don't think he can. He jumps in and stays on the bottom. It's the craziest thing.
Cole is our thoughtful child. Most of his day is spent in his room playing quietly with toys, usually trains. I always feel like I neglect him because he entertains himself so easily and doesn't require much attention. He used to be our most laid back, happy child, but ever since he turned three, he's become much more moody. I don't know why people complain about the "terrible twos". Threes are much, much worse.
He's very sensitive to correction. If he thinks he's in trouble he falls to pieces and has a hard time regaining his composure. Even just the threat of a frown from me or George and he's instantly upset. It's made disciplining him difficult since he does need correction for occasional poor behavior, but he takes it so hard emotionally. Parenting is hard. I'm convinced that the reason older people seem so full of advice is because by the time they're experts at raising kids, their own are grown and gone and they have nothing else to do with all their wisdom except try to share it.
Cole has a smile that will light up his entire face. I LOVE it when he smiles.
He has the darkest, deepest eyes I've ever seen. They melt my heart.
Cole is a "mama's boy" to the extreme. He loves to be with me and no matter where I go, he insists on coming, even if it's running errands or just sitting in the car. I love that he's my little shadow. He is constantly trying to sit on my lap, climb on my shoulders, hold my hand, touch my face, and just be with me. Boy it makes me feel good.
If I'm upset about something, even if it's not something he did, he'll run up and say, "I'm sorry, Mama." How can you stay mad with that?
He is very good about saying "Thank you." Every time we give him something, his little voice comes back with a happy "oh, thank you!" I love it.
Cole is our only child that is attached to his things. He's been that way since he was little. He has a hard time sharing and insists on bringing his toys with him everywhere he goes. Even to bed. It used to be a pirate sword, then a blue Wonder Woman cape, then a Ninja Turtle sweatshirt. Now it's trains.
He is completely, 100%, head-over-heals in love with trains. It's all he talks about, it's all he wants to see, and it's one of the only things he points out when we're driving in the car. He is amazing at finding all the train tracks we pass and must point them out every time we pass. He loves the Thomas the Tank Engine show and knows all the characters names and numbers. He will play with his trains all day and is always pulling out all the wooden tracks and making his own paths that he'll run his trains up and down on for hours. That's not an exaggeration. He'll sit there and roll his trains for hours, changing the track here and there, maybe switching out a car or two for a different one. His attention span is incredible.
Cole is our best eater. Of course he prefers crackers, chips, fruit snacks, noodles and bread, but he also enjoys carrots, cauliflower, and corn. He'll eat bananas, grapes and other fruit, but his favorite is apples. This kid can put away an apple! Love it! He LOVES chocolate chip cookie dough and would rather eat the dough than the actually cookie. I think his favorite food right now is probably cheese. He can't get enough cheese. And water. He's not much of a milk drinker, unlike Lance and Jude.
Cole loves to color and draw. He also knows most of his letters. He may know more letters than Jude. I've never felt strongly about pre-school for kids (I always felt like it was time better spent with family at home), but Cole may be my first child that would really love and excel in a classroom at such a young age. He loves to learn and is happy to sit still for an extended period of time while he draws or paints or works on a project.
We started potty-training in February and we're almost there. He still struggles with #2 and tends to hold it for as long as possible, but there is light at the end of the tunnel and I think in another month or two I won't have to worry about accidents. I hope.
He's recently started yelling. He used to be super quiet, but in the past few months he's started this strange angry yelling, sometimes about nothing. He'll just start yelling. He balls up his little fists, makes the angriest face and yells "No!" over and over. It's happening less frequently and I'm hopeful this stage will pass quickly. Talk about toddler angst!
When he's not yelling, he's usually very quiet. He has a huge vocabulary but is and always has been conservative with his words. He enjoys quoting movies, his favorite movie right now being "The Lego Movie". He'll be heard running around saying, "Stop messing with my stuff!" (Lord Business quote) and singing "Everything is awesome!" Love it!
While he would rather play with his trains, Cole does love watching TV. His favorite shows right now are Octonauts (a family favorite with all the boys and even Lily), Wild Kratts (again, a family favorite), Thomas, and Phineas and Ferb (my personal favorite). He went through a Ninja Turtle phase and still enjoys the newest remake of the classic cartoon, but he's not as obsessed as he was. He does want to be a ninja turtle for Halloween, though, so maybe his love hasn't waned as much as I thought.
Cole brings so much joy to our family. He and Jude share a special relationship and genuinely enjoy each other's company. He and Lily are frenemies--they love each other but love to irritate each other too--and Lance does a great job being patient with Cole and helping him. I can't imagine life without our Colie Olie. I can't help but want to hug and kiss his sweet face every time I see him. He is my little buddy and I love it!